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New Research Has Revealed The Acceptable Age For Who You Can Date

In 99% of successful relationships I have been in and have been part of creating , it works when the man likes to feel he can give to the woman and the woman can receive graciously. The man offering to pay on the very first date simply signals that willingness to give and it’s in a way that has for centuries signaled such. Things just don’t change that much. But when you’re just getting to know a little something about one another in a potential heterosexual relationship, having the man pay is a turn-on to women.

Very uncultured in regards to understanding and relating to not only someone from a different continent, but also a different race. I also live in NY, joined the US Army, accomplished a myriad of things in my life and raised two children alone. Hi Esther, so I am a 46 year old divorced male with no kids. … I do not think its a big deal if you guys are a couple, I believe that age is really relative and the time you spend together can be meaningful and valuable. Women want sex even more than men. They are the sexual creatures, they tone their bodies, wear sexually provacative close, they love to flaunt it.

Sometimes good looks are a curse at least for me it’s been difficult to find love that lasts. Unfortunately men around 40 who have committed so much of themselves to someone else for so much of their lives don’t actually experience this as much as you might think. I just turned 39, was destroyed by my ex via unfaithfulness about 15 months ago and can’t even get a woman to look my way.

What Do 40-Year-Old Men Want in a Woman

It’s not any harder than what other couples are going through, it’s just different. At the end of the day, a big age gap just gives you more opportunities to strengthen your problem-solving muscles as a couple. This is especially important if the haters are closer to you, like your parents. It’s hard to think our parents are wrong and even as adults we often think they still know what is best for us, so don’t let yourself get sucked into that kind of thinking. It doesn’t matter how happy you are, there will always be people out there who are not happy for you and your relationship. If you love each other, age doesn’t matter, but it is a good guideline when you are thinking about a future together, or if you care at all what society thinks.

One important thing for me, and I believe most women, is to have regular contact with the guy. If a man wants to get a woman interested, he needs to call just about every day, not out of duty, but if he is interested, this is the best way to start a relationship. Your description of our expectation of ‘roles’, fears, and desires is universal regardless of our sex.

Does the rule work for women?

The nice, relationship-minded men get quickly discarded by the 18-year-old. Try as he might, the 60-year-old fabulous guy can’t measure up to her expectations because she’s looking for a man who doesn’t exist. She gets stuck in affairs with men who never commit, and it’s often the nice guys who are interested in her who bear the brunt of her hurt and anger.

My friends GF is the only one in my whole life who tried to set me up with her gal pals. She has 5 friends in town and not one of them perks my interest at all. I am not into heavy set women, just the way it is.

I’m sorry to say but you are describing a lot of men and women. We can all make judgments based on the dumbest things. In fact, I just finished my Fix Your Man Picker course that teaches women how to attract and choose men who will truly make them happy.

Anyway, I’ll stop ranting about being single since 2007. I’ll be 42 this December and pretty much missed out on the whole having a family thing. Thanks for the article, just thought I’d add my 2 cents.

I have worked on myself and mistakes I’ve made in past relationships to become the best me ever. Now only to find a man as self aware who is his best self too. Face it, men are often intuitive as well. We also have a subconscious BS detector that pings when a red flag pops up, even though sometimes it might take a while to form into a cogent thought that can be accurately communicated.

Point being is a woman is bad in bed she usually does not like sex. Maybe adopt a child and be a single father. That way no one else can mess up your kid too. Serious I’ve been a single mom for a long time I was single 10 years between relationships I dated maybe 3 men briefly, but enjoy my kids and my own company more. My kids turned out awesome and happy I got to reach my goals and be my best self.


You say that you don’t want a me-first factory, but truthfully, all you are concerned with is getting your needs met in one way or another. Just because you are willing to barter for it doesn’t change the fact that your number one agenda is to get your own needs met. I don’t have kids, but she has 2 near the college age. Received a breakup text out of the blue.

I see where they look at my profile and nothing else. The few that ever wrote to me I did not find attractive in the least, but I would reply that I am not interested instead of just tossing their message in the trash like how it is done to me. Been apart from my ex for 6 years. I dress nice, am friendly and I realize the pool is extremely small. I prefer ladies between 48 and 58.

I guess you could say that I lost my game. I used to think that if I stop looking then the right women would come along. As far as trying to be with myself, I’ve done that for years now and all though it’s fun hanging out with friends, I really miss the companionship that you share when you are in a relationship. After reading you story you made me realize that there are good women out there as well. And remember all of the men out there are not just looking for sex. Although I do miss it, it means a lot more and feels better sharing it with someone you love and care about.